Narcissistic Abuse
One of the most heartbreaking things we hear from clients recovering from narcissistic abuse is:
“What if I was the narcissist?”
If you’ve asked yourself this question, it doesn’t mean you’re abusive. In fact, it’s a signs that you may have experienced manipulation, gaslighting, and emotional invalidation in a relationship.
At ttwpsych, we specialize in narcissistic abuse-informed therapy for clients across Ontario, and this question comes up all the time.
Let’s unpack why.
Abuse by a narcissistic individual often involves:
Over time, this erodes your internal compass. You might begin to ask:
But here’s the truth:
People who genuinely worry about being narcissistic are often not.
Why? Because narcissism, by definition, lacks empathy, self-reflection, and accountability.
Many survivors struggle with:
This is not your fault. This is the impact of relational trauma, and it’s exactly what narcissistic abuse-informed therapy helps you unravel.
At TTW Psych, our team provides therapy that goes far beyond surface-level validation. Our work focuses on helping you:
We specialize in narcissistic abuse recovery, so you won’t have to educate us about what gaslighting is or justify why you feel broken. We already know this territory, and we walk with you through it.
If you're asking, “Am I the narcissist?” you’re likely someone who:
That is not narcissism, but a trauma response.
If you're ready to stop living in self-doubt and start reconnecting with your truth, we're here to help.
👉 Book a free 15-minute consultation to speak with a therapist who specializes in narcissistic abuse recovery.
You don’t need to keep questioning yourself. Let’s find the truth, together.